People say that curvier = womanly, but I am struggling with the curves I see in the mirror now. Having gained 10 lbs, the curves I see just get equated to FAT in my mind.
I just feel like I look so STRANGE with curves as a short women (5”2), and I feel like I look really short and stubby or something….
But, I am trying to tell myself that IT’S NORMAL to look like this and curves do NOT mean fat per se.
In the mean time, I have also been working on resisting temptation to compare. I have the tendency to stare at skinny people like a creep and compare my arm/waist/leg size and get upset over why I am not as thin. I catch myself staring quite frequently, but I have been trying hard to stop myself :-/. It’s still a work in progress, but everyone has to start somewhere right?